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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

What ruined my weekend

Sorry if the title of this post is a little bit 'Nega'.

I just want to let this all out, just for the record.

A friend sent me a text message last week. He said, "Traydor!!!". My initial reaction was like, "Ha? Ano daw? Bakit ako traydor??" That was what I thought, so I replied to him with "Ha?" He replied back and it was just some prank message that has so-so meaning of what or how you replied on the first message, "Traydor!!"

So what I did, I tried to text them all to my close friends. To my surprise the following morning, I received 18 messages and 4 missed calls. It was hilarious! I replied back ofcourse. I forwarded them the so-so prank message reply and said peace!

Yes, it was funny to read all of their messages until I received a reply from a friend. Well, I consider him as my "bestfriend". We may not see and talk to each other that often, but I consider him that. Any way, his message contained his feelings on what I texted him, "Traydor". It really hurt me so, that I cried. That prank message backfired me. At was no fun at all anymore. :(

Just to tell you, that friend of mine and I had a misunderstanding. I was sulking on the fact that he has been ignoring me when I invited him to my son's birthday. I did not receive any reply at all. I would have understood if he just told me he can't make it because of this or that. He ignored me as if, he didn't care.

To make him notice that I was sulking the hell out of what happened, I erased him on my Facebook. But, as I expected, he didn't even bother to ask me why. Oh yeah!

Then prolly, he thought, I was serious when I texted him that "Traydor" message. May be it made his emotions come out. But, is that even "THAT" serious that he would say those kind of things to me? Haay.

I would not elaborate everything that he said but it sure hurt me a lot. :( He did not even bother to ask me how I feel and why I even texted that message. He just shoot me and ended our friendship right away. :(

I may be "tampo" but, I never thought of something worse than what he thought I was to him.

I missed him ever since. We haven't seen nor talked for quite a while, then it ended just like that. He is the only guy (aside from my husband) I trust so much that I even made him a "Ninong" for my son.

Haay.

Sorry. My pride might eat me alive but, as of the moment, I don't think, I can do the first move.