John "Pulpol"

Haha!
John calls me Honey P.. And according to him, it means "pulpol". So I also call him John P.. :D

My bestfriend, May, and I used to chat before in mIRC (2002-2004 I think). Accidentally, she had a chatmate who's living on the same village as ours. They decided to meet up in front of our house. May met her chatmate Logie. He is with his two friends Joerge and John. (they're brothers) After that meet-up they (May and Logie) never spoke to each other again.. However, after a few weeks, someone texted me. It was John. He decided to get to know me and asked me to be his date. I never said yes because I had a boyfriend that time.

When my ex-boyfriend and I broke up, I coincidentally bumped into John. We started texting and he started to ask me to go out with him again. John and I dated since 2006.  We have been boyfriend/girlfriend for 4 years. A lot surpassed us. As in UPS and DOWNS. Major major! :) However, as I said, we surpassed all that.

I thank the Lord because, inspite of my attitude and nega outlook about life (yeah that was me before), He still gave me a blessing. It was John. John is loving, caring, responsible and God-centered. I couldn't ask for more. He was able to change me and made me look at things/life positively. He is also patient with the kind of attitude I have. He changed me for the better.

Our lives changed when I discovered I was pregnant. At first, I didn't want to marry him yet because, I know I can still live happily without getting married. He can support our baby and we can still be "US". I also don't want to push him through getting married and I don't want to end his life as a single. I knew he wanted and still wants to do a lot of things. However, he personally talked to me and told me that he is already sure, that he wants to marry me. We talked things over. And I said yes. (Not the typical marriage proposal I had hoped for though, but it's okay. What matters is WE LOVE EACH OTHER).

Now, we already have Johann Lexer. He is such a blessing, an additional blessing for me. Also, little by little, there is a change in John. I noticed that he is more responsible now and the love he gives us, is doubled. He still appreciates me even if I'm not that glamorous or beautiful as before giving birth. He gives time to Johann. He would wake up in the morning and play with Johann. Even before he goes to work, he still does play with our baby. I love him for being a loving and responsible father to Johann.

So....

Mahal, sinasabi ko to sayo palagi.. Na mahal na mahal kita! Thankful ako na ikaw napangasawa ko, na ikaw papa ni Johann, na responsable ka, na mapagmahal ka sakin at kay baby. Kung may ulirang ina.. meron ding ulirang ama, at ikaw yun. 

Aalagaan kita hanggang tumanda tayo.. at hanggang mamatay pa at mapunta sa kabilang buhay. Masaya ako na nakikitang masaya ka lalo kapag kalaro mo si baby.. Pinapakita mo padin na mahalaga kami kahit na pagod na pagod ka na sa work. 

Wag ka sana magsawa sa pagmamahal na binibigay mo din saamin. 

I Love you so much mahal. I Love you din daw sabi ni baby.. :)

Happy Father's Day Mahal kong John Pulpol.. hehehe.. :)